Social distancing offers opportunities for personal growth
With the indefinite closing of public facilities like gyms, and the enforced isolation of social distancing caused by the COVID-19 pandemic, many are struggling to maintain their physical and mental well-being. Jennifer Wegmann 鈥94, MA 鈥01, PhD 鈥14, who specializes in the topics of body image and successful stress management, views the daily obstacles created by COVID-19 not intrinsically bad, but rather as learning opportunities for personal growth.
鈥淟et鈥檚 reframe this. It鈥檚 going to give you practice presenting and talking via Zoom and Skype, which you鈥檙e going to have to learn how to do in today鈥檚 society anyway,鈥 said Wegmann, a lecturer in 绿帽社鈥檚 Division of Health and Wellness Studies.
For anyone struggling with the fallout of COVID-19, physically or mentally, Wegmann has advice to offer from the perspective of a person who has worked in the health and wellness field for more than 20 years.
For those whose workout routines have been interrupted by the temporary suspension of all public gyms, Wegmann recommends getting creative with exercise. She said to stop wishing for your schedule 鈥 specifically workouts and training 鈥 to remain consistent, and to instead develop a new regimen within the constraints of your household.
鈥淐risis and adversity inspire innovation and creativity 鈥 think outside the box,鈥 Wegmann said. 鈥淒ownload an application like JEFIT. It will help you create workouts based upon your goals and available equipment.鈥
Jada Diodato, a math major, is one of many students struggling with the newfound online course formatting and the loneliness of social distancing. She expressed the drastic changes enforced upon her life by COVID-19.
鈥淔or starters, I no longer have a job or source of income,鈥 said Diodato. 鈥淣o more in-person classes puts a grey cloud above my whole routine as well. I now have to come to terms with the fact that my mom will never get the chance to watch me graduate from college.鈥濃ㄢㄢ淧retty much any and everything important in my life has changed drastically from this pandemic,鈥 she said.
However, Diodato recommends looking at the situation from a perspective of gratitude.
鈥淭hink of all those times you had so much stuff to do that you couldn鈥檛 even think straight, and be thankful for this downtime,鈥 she said. 鈥淜eep in daily contact with your family and friends, and keep spirits high!鈥
Engineering student Lucy Benack expressed similar sentiments, particularly her frustration with the sudden transition to an online classroom setting. She misses seeing her classmates and professors in person. More perturbing to Benack is the sudden awareness that, before social distancing, she considered her social life as something guaranteed.
鈥淎ll my social interaction now takes place via various social media platforms, which has made me realize how many aspects of my life I took for granted, such as my classmates, friends and clubs I鈥檓 in,鈥 she added.
Since the advent of social distancing, Benack has spent time with her parents, mostly playing board games and going for walks. For those tired of confinement indoors, Benack recommends getting out into the fresh air.
For some students, like English major Rhianna Henson, this crisis exacerbates previous struggles with anxiety.
鈥淚 already struggled with anxiety before all of this began, and now it has increased tenfold,鈥 Henson said. 鈥淚t鈥檚 been difficult to focus on my classes and homework 鈥 finding motivation has been really hard.鈥
To deal with this anxiety, Henson has kept herself busy as much as possible, such as keeping her house clean and watching movies with her boyfriend.
鈥淒oing things you consider fun or relaxing, going outside 鈥 these little things can keep you from feeling stir-crazy,鈥 Henson said.
While everything around us is changing, or getting taken away, Wegmann emphasizes the importance of clearing your headspace of what your life was like in the past, or what it may be like in the future.
鈥淚t takes a lot of energy and personal resources to live in the past, and it tunnels our vision so we can鈥檛 see what is here and now,鈥 she said. 鈥淢any people are trying to predict the future 鈥 that鈥檚 impossible.鈥
鈥淔ixating on what鈥檚 ahead creates fear and anxiety. The more mindful we are, the more in the moment we live,鈥 Wegmann added.
Lastly, even in a time of physical isolation, Wegmann highlights the importance of talking about your feelings.
鈥淭ake the time to communicate to others how you are feeling,鈥 she said. 鈥淩esearch has shown over and over again that connecting socially is one of the most effective ways to manage stress and anxiety.
鈥淎nd yes, this holds true even when you connect over [applications] like FaceTime, Zoom and Facebook Messenger,鈥 Wegmann said. 鈥淚nvite people into your life to share this experience with you.鈥